In terms of Black women having difficulties building relationship with opposit sex, what I mean is that Black women build strong masculine charatcers with faux confidence. That means only the most brute alpha can attract them. There is little quantity of such brute alpha, hence that why there such competition for them. Which explains what I call the 1 men 5 women harem which can aslo explains the high rates of stds in the black community (the Shorty lo, Antonio Cromarties, Adrian petersons). But some of the these alphas although they appear to have strong characters dont have REAL WORTH.